A friend of mine said to me a few weeks ago that there was a lady he had "set his sights" on in church and he really liked her.....at least from afar!He's said hello to her once after service just as people were filing out and the smile she gave him...oh such a sweet smile(Ha!Ha!).Now he would like to get to know her better but unfortuantely he has no idea how to go about it especially since Jubilee doesnt have any real gatherings for such interactions and he's a bit shy.Abeg somebody help my friend out of his dilemma before he misses out on what he thinks is a good thing!

Is he shy or what? If he truly belives she is, then walk up to her and say hello, introduce himself. There are only 2 sides to a coin, so he can either get a seemingly hand of friendship or otherwise

He should be man and stop moving back, you know 'operation take it by force' still dey o, the way he's going she might just slip off his reach.

BE BOLD AND TAKE THE LAND JARE

oh bros do you really want to approach her? Did i hear you say (YES)? Then you need to pray really HARD so that she wouldn't give you "Ela".If i may ask: are you ready for a relationship? I mean Physically,chronologically,mentally,emotionally,psychologically,
spiritually, materially,socially, em...mmmm biologically etc etc?
If your answer is capital YES.Go and ask God for boldness and then approach her.You know what? i cann't wait to see you at the alter.See you there.

okay!what he should do is this,he should nicely but not too strongly go after her by walking or should i say stroll by her side after church,throw in a "hope you enjoyed the service"then an "oh,my name is....."i guess thats a good start,next time,he can tell her what he does,cos she just might be a prospective clientele.if the friendship is meant to be then nature would take it up from there or better still,the lord would intervene and see things through.

Thanks to everyone who has shared a thought on this my friend(who reads anonymously!!Ha!Ha!) is most grateful!

helo; there alwy a good n bad motive, so it all depends on ur motive which no one knows,n pls act like a man.. personally i hate 'shy' guys as a christian we r might 2 b bold n confident so if u need her with gd motive do d right thing.here, Baba ll nt help u 2 talk or speak thru u n there's no prayer point 2 dat effect so let Daddy rest..do what right man!
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